Losing a Best Friend

Posted on June 8th, 2014

Words from Mum

Clio is ten and has just waved goodbye to one of her close friends of several years who has moved away from Cornwall. This is the first time this has happened and has had quite an impact on her. She wanted to write about how she feels and what she will miss with her friend’s departure. It is all her own words, thoughts and photos. 

Clio's perspective

Over to Clio

My school is called St-Tudy school, and there are only about 60 pupils in the whole school, years have to share class rooms because it is such a small school. My class room has year five and year six in and everybody knows each other. A new person coming to our school is such a big event.

 

St Tudy school & church

 

When I was in year three, a new girl came to St Tudy School, when she first arrived I didn’t know a thing about her, but because she was new, everybody was crowding around her and I felt I couldn’t talk to her. Anyway over the following weeks Lucy became good friends with me and my friend group and that is how it has stayed.

 

Friends forever

Last year she said “guys I might be moving to Aberdeen in Scotland.” But she also said “but if I do it won’t be for another year or so” But the year has gone now and she has moved. In her last few weeks I tried to spend as much time with her as I could before she left. These weeks have been the best with Lucy. For example we went on a school camp and had an amazing time messing around together.

 

Messing around on School Camp

 

We had a farewell boat trip for Lucy with some of my other friends. We jumped into the sea, it was freezing but we still had lots of fun. Leaving the boat I discovered I knew where we were, I had been there with my family on an adventure and recognised Guy’s Cottage. We were treated to chips and tango but Lucy didn’t want her tango so she gave it to me. 

 

Clio on boat trip with Lucy & friends

 

I am now no stranger to friends leaving because when my friends come and stay on holiday they leave, but most of them come back the next year, however Lucy might not ever come back and even if she does it won’t be for a few more years so I’m definitely going to keep in touch with her though Skype and she is sending us a monthly letter to our class.

Lucy will do great in Scotland just as she did when she came down to us making exciting new friends, plus she will be with her extended family up there.

I will always miss Lucy because whenever I felt upset she would always come over and make me laugh, she would also never exclude anyone, but the thing I will miss most about Lucy is her smile and that she was always there for me when I needed someone.

 

Lucy on the farewell boat Trip

Bye Bye Lucy it won’t be the same without you.

Clio xxx 

 

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