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Holidays - The hidden benefits that money can't buy.

by CoombeMill 5 January 2012 10:38

Guest Post from Katie Bailey 

 
Kate is a mum of two tearaway toddlers who lives in Cheshire with her long suffering hubby. Kate is a holistic therapist and also a keen writer so I was delighted when she offered to write for my blog on the need for children to have family holidays: 
 
On holiday at the beach

Do you need a holiday?

 
New Years resolutions. It's what a lot of us will be thinking about right now, but how many of you are resolving to have more holidays this year? Well, if there's a queue then I'm most definitely joining it. In fact, I'll be right there at the very front! 
 
Do you realise that holidays are actually essential for our long term health and wellbeing? Yes, they're not just the luxury that lots of us consider them to be. Our bodies need regular breaks to allow us to recuperate. If we're overworked we're more susceptible to illness because our immune systems become suppressed. 
 
There's also the issue of stress, which the majority of us suffer from probably far more often than we'd care to admit! Prolonged stress can have a disastrous effect on our bodies.  We're not designed to be in our 'fight or flight' mode long term and as far as I'm concerned this is the number one reason that regular breaks are absolutely essential.  
 
I know all too well that trap that we fall into when it comes to taking time off. I'm a prolific offender! 'There's too much to do', 'We really should be catching up on jobs', 'The business won't run itself', 'There's no way we can afford to take time off'. But I'm also aware that if we carry on that way burnout will slap us hard in the face, much like our toddlers do when we try to put them in our bed to grab an extra half hours sleep in the morning!
 
So how can we not take that break? We need time off to spend recuperating and relaxing because without it we won't be anywhere near as productive.  
 

What about our children?

 
Children deserve holidays and they actually need them just as much as we do. Its absolutely essential for them to have a chance to break free from routine, time to race around outside, explore new places and just spend time playing. Children learn just as much outside of the classroom as they do inside it. They need freedom and unplanned activities just as much as they need routine and structure.  
 
Most importantly, they need to learn that life isn't all about work.  I don't want my children growing up thinking that it is. However, I am well aware that if we carry on the way we're going then that is exactly what we'll be teaching them!  
 
So, I'm going to take a leaf out of my parent's book. 
 
 Fun at the beachKatie on the sandsandcastles at the beach
 

Learning from my childhood holidays

 
When I was a child we took the majority of our holidays in North Wales. Occasionally we spent a holiday down south but the majority were in exactly the same place. My parents owned a touring caravan which we always spent our entire summer in, plus most of our other school holidays.  While I loved the time we spent there I have to admit that growing up I was insanely jealous of my friends who got to travel abroad on their holidays. I brooded while it thundered and lightened outside, even snowed (yes, in June!) and I imagined that they were all having a great time sunning themselves on the beach, splashing around in a swimming pool and eating out with their families every night while we were stuck in the caravan playing snap! 
 
Don't get me wrong, Wales did have some sunshine too and we enjoyed many days riding the waves in our dinghy, but it is very easy to believe that the grass is greener, especially when you're young. The family holidays we had abroad when we older were great too but it's only now that I've begun to appreciate how truly blessed I was and what was really important. 
 
I now realise that my parents were very wise in knowing that it was much better for us to spend ten whole weeks a year together rather than one week abroad like my friends. The point is, it really didn't matter where we went. We got to go on holiday and spend lot of good quality family time together. Cliched, I know. But very very true! 
 
We had loads of holidays. No one worked, no one had their phone permanently attached to their hand (not that they really existed back then but that's not the point!) no one was doing housework or running errands for family and friends. We simply spent time together either on the beach, walking, eating, sitting, playing. In addition, we got to make lots of friends, the place was familiar which gave us more freedom than we would have had otherwise and there was plenty to keep us occupied. 
 
 fun outdoorsrock pools for the kidsbeach fun

Holidays, the bit that money just can't buy....

 
Holidaying is something my hubby and I have thought about and talked a lot about lately. We'd love to take our toddlers to all the corners of the world. There's loads for the little ones to learn from travelling but rather than worry about where we go, we know what's really important is that we have holidays together.  A proper break where we take time away from work, the business, the housework and that never-ending list of DIY!  We know that our children are growing up so fast that if we don't stop and take some time out together we'll miss it. 
 
We've had very few holidays since our children were born but the ones we have had they've enjoyed enormously. We haven't even had to do anything special because they never tire of spending time outdoors. They don't care whether it's beaming sunshine or it chucking down rain. And the real beauty of it is, that they're intrigued by the simplest of things, leaves, trees, insects and even just water! I'm well aware that will change when they're 12 and 13 instead of 2 and 3 but for now we'll just make the most of it. The time outside does us all good, the exercise, the fresh air and the daylight all helps us feel much better and the amount they learn is astonishing! It really is true that education happens anywhere. 
 
We know it's far too easy to be dragged away from family time at home, when we're 'off' work we're never really away from it. The phones are always on and it's easy just to take a second to check emails, which always ends up taking far longer than a second!  So we're making holidays a priority this year, we're going to make lots of time for them, and for us too.  
 
We want our children to have similar memories of their family holidays that we do, including spending lots of time with extended family, and friends who tagged along on occasion too.  For them to have memories of family holidays to reminisce over months and even years after. And we'll be ecstatic if they grow up wanting to recreate their experiences for their own children.
 

More about Kate

If you would like to find out more about Kate she often blogs on behalf of http://www.electricdialogue.com/ a London Web Development Agency and their clients, including http://www.no1traveller.com/ UK luxury airport lounge company. She is also a keen twitter girl  
 
I am so grateful to Kate for sharing her holiday memories and aspirations here. She gives a poignant message about family time that I support wholeheartedly. Hopefully I will meet Kate and her family holidaying with us at Coombe Mill this year!
 

Melanie Spills The Beans On Us

by CoombeMill 18 November 2011 11:30

Introduction

Melanie Clay lives with her husband and 2 gorgeous boys in Warwickshire. She has just established a successful on line business selling adorable baby and toddler products with a bias towards environmentally friendly and traditional suppliers. Many of these products would make ideal gifts if you are looking for some Christmas inspiration! http://www.grandbaby.co.uk/ . Melanie stayed here on holiday earlier this year with her lovely family and has kindly sent me this 'grand' review of their experience to share on my blog.

Melanie's Story 

I took the liberty of a short break from Grand Baby recently, some much anticipated time away with my hubby and my boys, and found such a wonderful place I just had to share it with you!

Now normally I spend an age debating where to go on holiday and where to stay, but I’d stumbled into Fiona from Coombe Mill whilst networking on twitter and face book, and after taking a look at Coombe Mill on facebook, and then the website just couldn’t believe it – could one place really be so toddler & child friendly?

Cameron is  2 + 4months, and Adam 7 months, so we needed somewhere that was baby & toddler friendly, and Cameron is well, a typical boy I think! Very active, very inquisitive, loves to climb, run, race, doesn’t miss anything ever, loves to terrorise his baby bro and can be a little….dare I say it….downright naughty! When we stayed at Coombe Mill in the middle of May, Adam was just over 6 months and weaning.

So when I read that Coombe Mill was a working farm with self catering cottages and Scandinavian lodges with:

Daily tractor rides to feed the animals and more animals than you could shake a pail of food at,

An indoor play barn and three outdoor play areas,

A river and stream running through plus two fishing lakes for Daddy!

Cot’s and High Chairs provided

Home cooked food available

Stair gates as standard and the cottage’s had toddler den’s full of toys

And all this as well as being in CORNWALL, we love Cornwall! So that was it – booked.

It was great to hear so much was provided or available, we’d piled the car high when we had just one boy but with two had no idea how we were going to fit everything in.

Booking was simple and Fiona and Jill were extremely helpful in assessing our needs…cots, highchairs, the right accommodation, and called to check a few days before where the cots needed to go too. You also get the details for the local store – St Breward’s, to contact who deliver a grocery order to your accommodation before you arrive so it’s all ready. No need to take the basics or start hunting for a shop the minute you arrive.

We arrived easily thanks to top directions to find the very picturesque Coombe Mill situated in a lush valley, which is in St Brewards, Bodmin.  We checked in and were accompanied to the accommodation for a quick tour and explanation of all the facilities both in our cottage and across the farm.

We stayed in Willow cottage, with great views to the front and back, not overlooked, private toddler safe patio garden, open plan lounge and kitchen area with an upstairs balcony looking over. Our provisions including local meat, cheese and of course scones jam and clotted cream were all waiting for us and everywhere was scrupulously clean, not even a toddler fingerprint in sight, which lasted for all of 5 minutes!

Willow from the Back garden

We found all the cutlery, utensils and kitchen equipment you could need, and even a dishwasher and washing machine. The toddler den was indeed full of toys including a huge amount of wooden railway, trains and accessories which was Cameron’s favourite all week – we kept that in the very spacious lounge. Downstairs was a Jacuzzi bath and shower with second bathroom, bath and shower upstairs. 

Exploring the grounds we quickly found the first play area, river, stream, and investigated the reception area where you can borrow most anything you might need really! Wellingtons, fishing nets, toys, more toys, games, maps, books, extra toddler cutlery, plates, baby carrier, waterproof’s, and buy basics including bread, milk and home cooked food, all left for you to help yourself and complete your “IOU for” in the book, which in itself gave a lovely feeling of being welcome and trusted

Now I love food so it’s important to me, but it’s also important to me to feed my family “proper” food most of the time and Adam is weaning too. And proper food it was waiting in Fiona’s reception freezer – casserole’s, lasagnes, and cottage pies and fish dishes with home cooked puddings to choose from too.  So as well as doing a little cooking ourselves and eating out we sampled a couple of dishes across the week and can highly recommend them, in fact we’re hoping Fiona share’s all her recipes soon!

Over the next few days we found two more outside play areas, the inside play barn, the fishing lakes, stream, wooded area, field’s to explore and of course all the animals.
Fishing Lake
We waited until the first feed run on Sunday morning to find the animals, we found the tractor trailer and all the other guests and their little ones in the car park, and farmer Nick ready to accept his first assistant of the day to drive the tractor with him.  My “no fear” two year old suddenly became trailer shy so we walked behind with the rest of the parents, and Adam in the pushchair while most of the children happily travelled in the trailer to fetch branches for the goats, then feed for the Chickens and Ducks and everyone piled into their pen to collect the egg’s, and visit the baby chicks and ducklings. It was wonderful to see everyone encouraged to feed them, collect egg’s and hold the chicks and ducklings at leisure – a great experience on its own for children but this was something they could do every day, as well as then (after a another tractor/trailer ride) piling into the Guinea Fowl and Peacock Pen. Then back on the tractor/trailer to the Pigs (you can save your food scraps for a treat for them) Donkeys, Sheep and Lamb’s, Alpaca, Deer and Goats. These were all spread across quite a large area so plenty of exercise for rowdy toddlers, lots more feeding experiences – you can go in all the pens. And a trek through the Alpaca’s field, up to the wood and through to chase the deer out for a very speedy appearance – but quite exciting for a little one.  And after all this - another tractor ride back to feed the rabbits – no small feat with a whole enclosure of them so the children can run round with them, and even some seating! Oh and let’s not forget the ponies.

In the ChickensHelping carry the foodMiniature Donkeys

It was amazing to find most of the morning gone when we headed back and time for lunch, and the feed run’s are 6 days a week so plenty of entertainment and all included!

And of course there isn’t just the farm, you can use the swimming pool at the holiday park just up the road, and Coombe Mill is a great base for exploring Cornwall being so central, it’s just 20-30 minutes to great beaches to the North West and South, and 1-1h 30 to St Ives. There was a great guide in our accommodation – compiled by Coombe Mill to everything to see and do in the area too.

So after feed runs, exploring, swimming, more feed runs, beach visits and even more exploring we thought we would let Daddy try out the Carp lake, so he borrowed a rod from Farmer 

Helping Daddy Fish

Nick’s shed, bought some bait from the handy fishing shop at the holiday park up the road and settled in a chair for a few hours, and a very productive few hours it was – 5 huge carp were landed, admired and let loose which the 2yo thoroughly enjoyed too, of course he didn’t see them all we couldn’t keep him still that long! And he had his own little go with a borrowed fishing net, bucket and the thousands of tadpoles that were bobbing about!

 

 

A fabulous week was had by all of us, we loved Coombe Mill and won’t hesitate to book again soon – Thank you so much Fiona, Nick and everyone for a lovely holiday! 

If you go down in the Woods Today....

by CoombeMill 18 October 2011 02:38

Cardinham Woods by Julie BermanChildren in a Tunnel of Trees

 

Recommended by a friend, as well as being on our list of new places to visit this year, we finally made it to Cardinham Woods last week.  Firstly, it’s very easy to find, a few minutes outside Bodmin (head towards the A38/Liskeard direction and take the first turning off the roundabout – follow the brown tourist signs).  There is lots of parking (£2 flat fee all day).  Straight away, the girls were in awe of the variety of dog breeds jumping out of the back of their owners’ cars (it is a dog-walking heaven). We donned wellies and waterproof jackets and set off armed with a map of all the trails. The day was overcast and it was threatening to rain, so we decided on the easiest 3km circular route.  It was flat for the most part so very accessible to wheelchairs or pushchairs.  I can’t vouch for the other routes but the one we took would also have been perfect for cyclists of all abilities.  There are in fact 5 different walking trails through the Woods ranging from 3km to 5 ½ km. Some of them apparently are steep in places but you are then rewarded by stunning views over the forest and (on one of the trails) of an old lead and silver mine.

 Stunning Views in the Woods

Our timing was perfect and the heavens opened just as we reached the end of the walk which brought us back to our starting point of the car park.  If, like me, you need hot liquid refreshment and something sweet to munch on at the end of a walk, then Woods Café will be right up your street.  It’s not massive inside but very welcoming, with comfy sofas, piles of magazines to flick through and toys and books to keep children occupied. It also has outside seating if the weather’s right.  The coffee was excellent and the enormous slab of cake was delicious and nearly (!) too much for one person.

 

I can see on a dry, sunny day that you could pack a picnic and spend the whole day exploring the forest.  There are a couple of picnic and barbeque areas along the trails and a very well equipped play area ideal for smaller children back near the car park.

 

Next time, we will come prepared and try one of the longer walks – and hope for better weather! 

Cardinham Woods BridgeGirls Enjoying the Woodland PathsBeautiful Old Bridge

A bit about Julie

After many years of city life, Julie moved to North Cornwall 9 years ago. In between helping with her husband's business and acting as taxi driver to their 2 beautiful daughters, she now spends as much time as possible on the beach. I love Julie's writing style and am hoping for more guest blogs in the future, perhaps one on our lovely Cornish beaches!