This meme comes to me from the very supportive TheBoyandMe who encourages me with my blog and has a lovely blog of her own going about life with her beautiful Boy. The meme originated from Danielle at twopointfourchi with this post ; another parenting site well worth following.
Things to do before I am ……..
The photos show the Kids 6 years ago and all of us now. In 6 years time when I hit 50, (there we are said it now!) I think many things will be changing again for us as a family. Our children will be age 13 to 19 and many of my achievements and wishes are based on the changes that will bring.
So here goes for the list of things I hope to achieve.
Go away for a weekend with Nick and leave the Children in charge of themselves and the farm
Go out for dinner and have one of the boys come and collect me in the car
Have regained 1 bedroom in the house and hopefully packed 1 child happily off to Uni
Have found a big enough dining table to accommodate meal times with the girlfriends and boyfriend too!
Have built another 2 Scandinavian lodges at Coombe Mill
Add a really significant “something” extra that all our guests will benefit from
Still be able to cycle up our hill
To stay young at heart and still enjoy sporty things with the (grown up)kids – surfing, skating, cycling etc
To fight the onset of grey hair with the best colorants on the market!
Maintain the respect of my children, when I am the shortest member of the family!
Find enough time to keep enjoying my blogging
Play golf with Nick more than twice a year
Organise a big party for my 50th and practice with a mini party for my 45th
keep a bathroom for myself in a house full of teenagers
Win a competition for a year’s supply of Lynx for the boys
Train myself to go to bed before midnight
Be able to go to sleep at night and not wait up for the kids to stumble in from where ever
Be making a smooth transition from parent protector to parent support and friend
Make sure I never find teenage dirty dinner plates or half drunk drinks in teenage bedrooms
Hope that I have done enough as a guiding parent to ensure I am not a Grandmother by 50!
I am now tagging the following people to write a list of things to do before they hit their next decade. They then need to copy the url of their post back into the linky tool on Two Point Four Children’s post.
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